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Now that probably sounds like the groom is responsible for a lot, but taking on a new bride is a lot of responsibility, but the bride’s family is responsible for the lion’s share of the expenses, including paying for the bridesmaids’ bouquets, flowers for the reception and ceremony, renting a canopy and wedding carpet. And in addition to paying for the invitations, the bride’s family should also pay for wedding programs, special napkins, matches, and any other href="http://click.redgaloshes.com/click?a=4485&c=000740&o=04-1000" target="_blank">printed items. Plus, the bride’s family is obligated to pay the church fee or rent a hall, pay for the band or DJ for the reception, the photographer, and all the costs for the reception. If you follow these guidelines of wedding etiquette, everything should run smoothly.